Professional
coaching is the second fastest growing services sector behind
information technology services. What’s behind this tremendous
growth? In the simplest terms it’s about change. The pace
of change within the business landscape continues at amazing
speed. Individuals and organizations are facing tremendous pressure
for higher performance. Many professionals are experiencing significant
career turmoil as a result of business changes, mergers, consolidations
and downsizings. Often professionals find themselves unprepared
for the frequency of change, and in need of new or updated skills
for career advancement or career transition.
Plus, it’s no secret that the contract between employer
and employee has radically changed. Many professionals are just
no longer satisfied or dependent on current employers for little
to no mentoring, development or defined career advancement. Coaching
helps professionals take charge of their careers and professional
advancement. It delivers an empowering service to help clients
evaluate personal and professional goals and strategically map
actions to achieve desired results. Coaching helps people focus
on what matters most to them in business, career and life. And
as many individuals are experiencing tangible benefits from taking
charge of their personal and professional success, coaching continues
to grow rapidly and organically.
If you’re new to the concept of coaching, Jodie Charlop offers some answers to common questions about the process
and benefits.
There are many different types of coaching services available
today, and different definitions exist for each area of coaching.
For more information on how we define our various coaching
services, visit our services section.
From a general definition, coaching is a “professional” partnership
between a qualified coach and an individual or corporate team
that supports the achievement of a client’s desired goals.
Coaching helps clients focus on the skills and actions needed
to successfully produce their desired results in business,
career or life.
At Potential Matters, we believe coaching is a strategic tool
to help clients cut through the clutter of business, interpersonal
dynamics and/or personal barriers and gain the clarity needed
to support the most effective actions to achieve personal and
professional goals. We believe coaching accelerates individual
or team progress by providing greater focus and awareness of
challenges and opportunities, which can lead to more effective
choice-management and decision-making. Coaching concentrates
on where individuals or teams are now, and helps them explore
what they are willing to do to get where they want to be in
the future.
| What are the benefits of coaching? |
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Potential Matters concurs with the International Coaching
Federation that professionals who engage in a coaching
relationship
can expect to experience fresh perspectives on personal
challenges and opportunities, enhanced thinking and decision-making
skills, enhanced interpersonal effectiveness, and increased
confidence in carrying out their chosen work and life roles.
Consistent with a commitment to enhancing their personal
effectiveness, they can also expect to see appreciable
results
in the areas of productivity, personal satisfaction with
life and work, and the achievement of personally relevant
goals.
| How can you determine if coaching is right for you? |
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To determine if you could benefit from coaching, consider
outlining what you would expect to accomplish in coaching.
Is there a
specific goal that you would like to achieve but have not
moved forward on? Do you feel that you could benefit
from additional
clarity or directional support to achieve your goals? Would
you find it valuable to collaborate or bounce your thoughts
and ideas against a professional sounding board – one
that can provide honest, unbiased feedback and often a fresh
viewpoint? Are you ready to do the work -- devote the time
and energy to go after what you want in your work or life?
If any of these questions resonate with you, then perhaps coaching
may be a beneficial way for you to grow and develop.
| What are some of the reasons that I might chose to work
with a coach? |
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The
International Coaching Federation (ICF) outlines just a few of the many reasons
that an individual or team might choose to work with a coach:
- There is something at stake (a challenge, stretch
goal or opportunity) that is urgent and compelling.
- There is a gap in knowledge, skills, confidence, or resources.
- A big stretch is being asked or required, and it is time sensitive.
- There is a desire to accelerate results for the individual
or the organization.
- There is a need for a course correction in work or life due
to a life setback.
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An individual has a style of relating that is ineffective or
is not supporting the achievement of one’s
personally relevant goals.
- There is a lack of clarity, and there are choices and decisions
to be made.
- The individual is extremely successful, but success has started
to become problematic.
- Work and life are out of balance, and this is creating unwanted
consequences.
- One has not identified his or her core strengths and how best
to leverage them.
- The individual desires work and life to be simpler, less complicated.
- There is a need and a desire to better organized and more self-managing.
| What’s the difference between counseling or “therapy” and
coaching? |
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Coaching is a collaborative and interactive
process that helps you define your desired personal and
professional goals and
then proactively supports you in making the changes
necessary
to turn your vision into reality. There are many
professional opinions on the differences and similarities of “coaching” versus “counseling.” We
believe the most important difference is that
coaches do not and should not treat any type of traditional
mental health
concerns.
Counselors and therapists have very specialized training and
professional licensing that enable them to work with clients
on traditional mental health issues. However, there are many
excellent counselors that deploy coaching techniques as part
of their counseling practices. While counselors can move into
the coaching arena, and many have done so successfully, coaches
cannot and should not practice counseling. In fact, a good
coach knows when to refer their clients to additional resources
when appropriate. We encourage you to inquire about a coach’s
credentials as well as approaches and techniques. The coaching
industry is still young and still forming, so credentials and
training can vary dramatically.
For my own training, I chose to train in a counseling program,
because of my personal philosophy that we don’t leave
our lives at the door when we go to work – and vice versa.
But I made a personal career choice to focus on coaching and
coaching techniques because I believe it offers clients more
tangible results and promotes personal accountability to our
own goals and life satisfaction.
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Philosophically, I don’t believe we can leave our personal
self at home when we go to the office. But coaching sessions
are not typically focused on your personal life. However, if
there are personal barriers that emerge that are blocking your
success, I will help you assess personal impact on professional
goals. Even though I do not treat traditional mental health issues,
my study of human behavior and professional counseling has
been helpful to my clients as I have the understanding of how
many of these complex issues can impact professional success.
But if you are dealing with serious emotional distress, it’s
challenging and sometimes just near impossible to make good
business or life decisions. I have no problem sending a client
to do some personal counseling work before we start a serious
coaching initiative. Sometimes, clients work in tandem with
a coach and a counselor. In addition to working on advancing
professionally, several of my clients are also managing depression,
anxiety, ADHD or other traditional mental health issues in
tandem with a coaching program. While Potential Matters sessions
are focused on professional goals, these are real issues that
my clients are dealing with and have to factor into their career
decisions.
| Isn’t it my boss’ job to provide the coaching
I need to do perform well and succeed? |
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If you have ever had a great boss that served as role model
and mentor, count your blessings. In today’s fast paced
business environments, professionals have barely enough time
to meet the basic demands of their own jobs. Even for senior
professionals with the greatest of intentions to develop and
mentor their teams, mentoring and professional development
is a luxury given the pace of change in business today. Professionals
at all levels are taking matters into their own hands, which
is why coaching is growing at such a rapid pace. Plus, regardless
of how wonderful your boss is, he or she always has a dual
agenda. A coach works with you and your agenda, and is focused
on your individual goals. However, on the corporate coaching front, many professionals
are now bringing in coaches for their teams because it can
have great business performance benefits. Coaching helps individuals
within a team be more productive by navigating typical corporate
dysfunction, offering realistic perspectives on jobs and performance
and business goals. Coaching can improve employee job satisfaction
while helping teams become more efficient, effective and performance
driven. When working with a corporate coach, hired by the company,
please remember that his or her client is the company – so
the underlying goal of the coaching initiative is always corporate
driven.
I work with a number of corporate clients and their employees
with great results. But, I’m very clear on the goals
of individual coaching sessions with employees. To get unbiased,
personal coaching, you can opt to hire and work with your own
coach – though many employers will fund these activities
through professional development and education budgets.
| How do I know which coach is right for me? |
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Coaching, like counseling, has many different approaches,
techniques and models. One coach I know that is very effective
with executives and teams puts his clients through a rigorous
six-month boot camp-type program with stringent weekly
assignments. Others I know, take a more client-centered
approach, empowering
employees to go at their own pace. The good news is there
are lots of choices. The challenge is picking the right
one for you. At Potential Matters, we believe each client has unique talents,
needs and resources so we take a more client-centric approach.
That means we don’t put clients into a standard process
or methodology, we collaborate with the client to customize
activities and resources mapped to the client’s individual
goals.
In my opinion, picking a good coach is like picking a
good financial advisor, counselor or even a trusted
physician, and
it’s a very personal choice based on your short- and
long-term goals. However, I would recommend anyone considering
coaching to examine three basic factors: 1) training, 2) experience,
and 3) chemistry. Some things to consider:
- Ask about credentials. Has your coach completed
an advanced degree or professional training in a related
professional field,
such as, adult education, psychology or behavioral science,
organizational development, management. Ask about specialized
certifications and current professional development?
- Does your coach have business and life experiences that are
relevant to your own challenges or goals? For instance,
if you are working through a tough corporate political situation,
does your coach have hands-on corporate experience? If
you are looking for greater work-life integration, does your coach
serve as a role model?
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What is the coach’s coaching style and/or philosophy?
Do you want someone to push you hard? Would you prefer
someone with a more holistic approach? Ask about his or
her approach
to coaching and consider what personality style you feel
most comfortable working with.
Another tip! If you’ve tried coaching and found your
first experience lacking, don’t give up. Ask around and
keep looking for the right coach for you. Working with the
right coach, you can truly transform your professional life.
| I tried coaching once and it didn’t work for me. Will
it be different with another coach? |
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I always encourage folks that if you’ve tried coaching
and found your first experience lacking, don’t give up.
Ask around and keep looking for the right coach for you. Working
with the right coach, you can truly transform your professional
life, but one size coach doesn’t fit all. Coaching, like
counseling, has many different approaches, theories and techniques.
Do your homework and get as informed as you can about the credentials,
services and approaches and find the right fit for you.
I would also encourage you to think about what didn’t
work. Was it the coach or were there other issues at play.
For example, timing can be an issue. Sometimes, if a client
isn’t ready to do the work, I’ll tell them that
they might want to reconsider the timing of working with a
coach. Also, did the coach tell you something you didn’t
want to hear. Avoidance can sometimes be a sign that you just
aren’t ready to move forward. A skilled coach should
be able to help you assess your readiness for coaching.
| How many sessions will I need with a coach to meet my goals? |
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The number of sessions varies based on each individual’s
personal and professional goals. I’ve worked with clients
who, in one or two sessions, have used coaching to address
a specific business or career issue. Some clients work in what
I call situational bursts of activity: I’ll see a client
working on a specific issue three or four times in the course
of a few weeks until it’s resolved to his or her satisfaction.
Some clients I see once a month like clockwork. For longer-term clients, our sessions are evolutionary, as
clients are constantly taking on new goals and challenges in
their business, work or life. Like building a great building,
one level at a time. In a corporate setting, studies have shown
that on average, a professional will show observable results
in 8-10 sessions over several months. But, our philosophy is
that our clients are bright, motivated individuals and we set
the frequency of sessions based on each individual’s
personal and professional goals.
To reiterate my own experience, I’ve personally worked
with my business coach and mentor for seven plus years. The
frequency of my own coaching varies from a few times a month
to once a quarter, depending on what I am working on at different
phases of my work and life. Like many of my clients, as I achieve
goals, I begin setting new ones. My own coach has been my resource
and sounding board through multiple job and contract negotiations,
managing corporate dynamics, completing an advanced degree
and launching my own practice.
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My primary office is located in Atlanta, Georgia near Emory
University. However, more than 50 percent of my client
base is located in other cities throughout the US, and
I have
several clients in Europe as well. Most clients, regardless
of location, prefer to conduct sessions by telephone because
it’s convenient and sessions can be easily scheduled
into a very demanding day, or outside of traditional work
time. While I conduct in-person sessions with local Atlanta clients
upon request, I do periodically schedule sessions in other
cities dependent on the number of clients in a particular geographic
area. For example, I have many clients in the San Francisco/Silicon
Valley area, so I travel to the Bay area at least once a quarter
at the request of clients who enjoy periodically augmenting
telephone sessions with face-to-face sessions. I also have
a growing client base in New York City, and anticipate doing
periodic sessions there as well.
| How do I pay for coaching services? |
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Many companies today will pay for coaching services as part
of an individual’s professional development or education
program. So I encourage clients to ask employers about their
policy on paying for coaching services as part of a professional
development program. Coaching services are billed on an hourly basis or clients
may take advantage of pre-paid coaching package arrangements.
Payment for services is due in full at time of service by check
or credit card. New client forms include credit card authorization
for reserving appointment times. Scheduled appointments must
be canceled at least 24 hours in advance or the client will
be charged in full for the scheduled session. Monday appointments
must be cancelled no later than 5:00 pm on the Friday prior
to the session.
With advance approval, Potential Matters will make arrangements
for corporate billing. Clients can make arrangements for corporate
payment net-15 days or Potential Matters will pre-bill clients
based on a pre-determined number of sessions for a 3-month
period. Clients are responsible for all payments, regardless
if corporate billing is established. Late payments by the company
on more than one occasion within a six-month billing cycle
will result in the client reverting back to a direct pay at
the time of service.
| Do you offer a first meeting for free? |
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We understand the importance of selecting the right professional
coach for your needs. In fact to ensure the right fit,
we highly encourage you to interview several coaches before
selecting a practitioner for services. Unfortunately, due
to increased demand for our services, we are unable to
offer
a first meeting free of charge. We will, however, schedule
short telephone discussions with interested clients to
answer any questions about our services that may not be
addressed
on our Web site.
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